Frustrations!!!

I don't yet have a new home started but feel as though it is very near ~ I hope so anyway. I am going crazy with this waiting. I question the variety of excuses handed me by a loan officer at a local bank that KNOWS our entire portfolio, has assured me we are approved for all we need and/or want financially and still yet, we are not yet commenced.
Thankfully, I have a dear friend who is saving my life by taking me out of the area for an extended vacation up east, I wonder if I want to return?!
I am so thankful for all I have and I thank God for my blessings. I will remain strong, no matter what. We have altered our thoughts, plans, dreams and ideas and just yesterday, I determined that we will stay strong in what we want and it will be done!!!! Whomever may read this ~ please help us pray for all to be done and quickly. We wrote our original contract in October of 2008 and this is getting silly now. If I were a bank and looked at what I was causing for anyone, all the strife the bank is putting a person through would be tantamount to unforgivable. Luckily, I know forgiveness but not necessarily forgetfullness.